"So, i went to EXBO on Telegraph Ave in Oakland, CA. Two of their security decided they could put their hands on me and my friend. we didn 't feel safe using the woman 's bathroom because the door wasn 't closing. so, we went to the men 's bathroom. a black (I 'm assuming) woman security guard came to us and told us we couldn 't be there but we were explaining to her that the women 's bathroom door wouldn 't close. she wasn 't listening and she decided to put her hands on me and push us out and told us that we had to leave the club. I didn 't catch her name. so, I took my friend to the women 's bathroom, because she really had to use the bathroom, and i leaned against the door because it wouldn 't close. thinking it would be over, as soon as we got out the bathroom, a white man with long grey hair put his hands on us and started pushing us out. the woman security guard pushed us out too, smirking at the same time. I was trying to catch up with a person and get their number before I left. the man with the long grey hair told me get the f out and put his hands on me, pushing me out the club. As a fellow southeast Asian person, I wanted to support this club. vibes, food, and drinks were really good. I went there to support a friend of my friends ' who was DJ 'ing that night. Everything was good until the security (specifically those two) decided to do that. note, my friends and I (all females) used the men 's bathroom earlier in the night. security didn 't have a problem with it and understood us when we explained. So I guess the safety of an empty men 's bathroom was more important than the safety of my friend and me."