"While other customers are often asked if they want their sandwich or wrap cut in half, I usually have to ask for this myself. I also notice that the owner tends to give paper plates to other customers, but not to me. The hash browns are fried like French fries and come out oily, so I've politely requested extra napkins to absorb the grease. I also prefer to ask for just one piece of cheese instead of the usual two. Additionally, I always have to request a bag, especially if I'm taking a drink to go. I consistently say "please" and "thank you," and I typically leave a tip in the jar.
Despite my frustrations with having to ask for things that seem to be readily offered to others, I’ve always remained gracious and never complained—until yesterday. After the owner gave paper plates to other customers but not to me, I asked if I could please have two plates since I was sharing. After an unusually long pause, the owner handed me two flimsy plates, while other customers received sturdier, coated ones. This was the first time I had ever asked for a plate. After thanking him, I expressed my concerns to another staff member about the owner’s consistent lack of fairness in serving me. The owner then accused me of being rude and demanding.
At 78 years old, and with 35 years of experience as a clinical social worker, I pride myself on my ability to observe and understand people’s behavior, treating everyone with patience and respect. It’s disheartening to encounter what seems to be discriminatory behavior from a business owner, especially after living in Mt. Airy for 42 years."
