"This situation makes me ponder a lot about my experiences at restaurants. Am I being treated poorly, or is it just my perception? Or perhaps I'm the one with biases against certain staff members. I wish I could understand myself better in this regard. To be truly fair to myself and the restaurant, I think I should visit at least ten times and note the differences with each visit. That way, I could determine who's really at fault.
Could it be that the same worker had a series of bad days every time I went? Or was my demeanor off when I placed my order? Did I approach the restaurant with preconceived notions? Maybe there was a miscommunication and the staff member wasn't in the best mood, which affected my experience.
All these questions swirl in my mind. Was the issue on my end or theirs? I often wish there were a device that could assess the situation and tell me where the fault lies. If it indicates that I need to improve my mindset, I could work on that. But if it points to the restaurant, they could make necessary adjustments. Imagine how invaluable such a machine would be!"